Karen Louise Barley

karen barley

February 13, 1950 ~ July 16, 2026

Born in: Brooklyn, NY
Resided in: St. James, NY

Barley – Karen Louise, nee Werner, age 76, succumbed on July 16, 2026 from debilitating and lethal complications resulting from emergency colon surgery performed on June 14. She maintained peerless courage, bravery, and resolve in all that was required for a recovery that proved preordained to fail. She is survived by her husband, Doug; and beloved son, Matthew; as well as her younger brothers, Ken and Robbie Werner. She was predeceased by her brother, Danny Werner. Karen was born in Brooklyn in 1950 to Gustav and Sally Werner who later relocated the family to Huntington where she graduated from Half Hollow Hills high school. As an adolescent, her Sicilian grandparents worked in the textile industry and introduced her to fiber arts, including sewing, crocheting, and embroidery, all of which she quickly mastered. By age 10, she could crochet while watching TV. Karen excelled in virtually all handcrafts which later evolved into a lifelong pursuit of any and all artistic endeavors, from painting to pottery. In high school, she was the only girl who proudly sewed her own prom dress. She graduated Magna Cum Laude from Dowling College with a Fine Arts degree, and later completed her Masters in Fine Arts, as well, despite the limited career opportunities. Karen’s devotion and fufillment was always about pure artistic expression rather than commercial success. To her, the joy was in the creation of art that was personally satisfying to her and those around her. She spent 20 years teaching Art in high school, where she was named “Teacher of the Year” by her students. Throughout her life, Karen’s greatest fulfillment came from unselfishly sharing her skills with anyone interested in bringing beauty into the world. She was also a chef-level cook from days with her grandmother and restaurant employment shortly after marriage in 1972. After retiring in 2007, she narrowed her endeavors to pottery in her home studio and later by joining a not-for-profit pottery studio called the Brick in St. James, where she taught various ceramic disciplines. A memorial service celebrating Karen’s life will be held at Hawkins & Davis Funeral Home, 17 Manor Road, Smithtown, NY 11787, off Landing Avenue near the Smithtown train station on Wednesday, July 29, 2026. Services will convene from 2:00-4:00, and 7:00-10:00 PM. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Sweetbriar Nature Center, 62 Eckerncamp Drive, Smithtown, NY 11787.

The family of Karen would like to invite anyone who is in attendance to please come to the Old Street Restaurant and Pub, 92 East Main St. Smithtown, NY 11787 between the visiting hours to share in honor and in celebration of her life.

Services

Visitation: Wednesday, July 29, 2026 2:00 pm - 4:00 pm

Hawkins & Davis Funeral Home
17 Manor Road
SMITHTOWN, NY 11787

(631) 265-1810

Visitation: Wednesday, July 29, 2026 7:00 pm - 10:00 pm

Hawkins & Davis Funeral Home
17 Manor Road
SMITHTOWN, NY 11787

(631) 265-1810

Service: Wednesday, July 29, 2026 8:00 pm

Hawkins & Davis Funeral Home
17 Manor Road
SMITHTOWN, NY 11787

(631) 265-1810

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  1. Doug & family – I am so sorry for your loss. Good memories from back in the day of Karen. Praying for you & the family – for peace, comfort & strength to get thru this hard time. Mark, Lisa and I are thinking of you.

  2. There are no words..!!…thank you for being who you were and forever will be.
    Thank you for being a part in my life. Be at Peace Karen…Forever in our hearts.<3
    You will be missed.

  3. Karen, you were such a warm guiding light at The Brick, a great ceramicist and a wonderful teacher. I appreciated you, your talent and your good humor very much. Rest in peace, you will be missed.

  4. Karen, you’ll be missed. You were an amazing person / artist / teacher. Always ready to help, always ready to share your tricks to get perfect drawings on the clay. I remember how excited we all got when you came with your pup and new pottery to show us. We were always in awe. You will be missed greatly. The pottery community will forever miss you.

    • Will miss you everyday my dear friend.We had so many good times together.My heart will always have a hole in it.Will be there For Doug and Matt and Try to help them thru this difficult time.Please know you were loved by so many

  5. I get overwhelmed when I think of the loss of such a beautiful, talented and loving friend-I am honored to calll her that. I would kid Karen about being a handbuilder in ceramics and me a wheel person, but she shinned in both areas. Always upbeat and sharing of ideas and techniques – always positive and a true inspiration at The Brick Studio. The world is not a better place right now with her passing. We are so grateful of Matt joining in to help the studio with his inquisitiveness and presence-so helpful and fresh. Thank you for sharing the video of her life and loves.

  6. Karen I will miss your beautiful smile , positive outlook and boundless artistic genius at The Brick. You always laughed when I said that hand/building was “ the dark side” and I was a “mud slinger” There was never a time when you didn’t offer to share your technique’s or help someone create that special piece. It was such an honor to get to know you and share in the development and nurturing of the Brick. You will be so deeply missed and your presence will be part of us always and hopefully continue with Matt. Rest in peace my friend.


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