Anthony DeMartino

anthony demartino

February 14, 1933 ~ August 26, 2026

Services

Visitation: Sunday, August 30, 2026 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm

Hawkins & Davis Funeral Home
17 Manor Road
SMITHTOWN, NY 11787

(631) 265-1810

Mass: Monday, August 31, 2026 10:30 am

St. Patrick's R C Church Smithtown
280 E Main St
SMITHTOWN, NY 11787


Entombment: Monday, August 31, 2026 12:00 pm

St Charles Cemetery
Wellwood Ave.
Farmingdale, NY 11735


Army Veteran

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  1. Uncle was an Uncle to everyone he met. I enjoyed my conversations with him. He loved being around family. He would sit back and observe the room. He loved when people came to visit him in the city. He was a city boy – plays were his favorite. He lived an amazing life. His memory will continue on through his family.

  2. For the short time I had to spend with you ,you brung joy into my life with you stories and kind words I’m very blessed to have met you and your family and me and my family will never forget you RIH Tony 😇

    Love Shawn

  3. Losing you, Uncle Anthony, has left a place in my heart that can never be filled. It is difficult to put into words how much you meant to me and how deeply your absence is felt. You were more than just my Uncle—you were a source of love, inspiration and kindness. I will always treasure the memories we shared, your laughter, your showbiz stories, and the little moments that I may not have realized at the time would become some of my most precious memories.

    Thank you, Uncle Anthony, for every smile, every laugh, and every moment of love. The world is better place because of you. I will carry you in my heart for the rest of my life.

    Love, Danny Mormino

  4. My dear cousin Anthony we shared so many memories and all the laughs we had together especially during the holidays. You brought joy into everyone’s life. I will never forget you until we meet again.
    Love your cousin,
    Bernadette Mormino

  5. I met Tony a few years back through his dear friend Julie Urdahl. Julie is a 40 year friend of mine, and shared so much in common with Tony. Their love of the Theater and the arts in New York was endless! He was her family in new york, and I was lucky enough to become his friend through her They collaborated together daily as to what was the best show to be seen, looked out for one another, and always were in sync.When she introduced me to him, I was in awe of all that he has seen and done in his long life. His passion for the arts and his joyful heart, made Tony so unique. As Julie says, “there will never be another Tony”! I agree, wholeheartedly. Just being with him and hearing his wonderful stories, stories that were so interesting about all the celebrities he had met through his many years since a teenager, made everyones day brighter! Not to mention his extensive knowledge of the artist themselves. He was a bright light in everyone’s life, and i will miss him dearly. I know he was taken by the hand by our Lord and Savior and introduced to pure bliss and joy in heaven, as it should be. He was a good and faithful servant, and deserving of a beautiful life everlasting.
    My sincere sympathy to his family and all of those who loved him.🙏 ♥️🙏

  6. Words cannot express the impact Uncle Anthony made on people’s lives. His joy, generosity, unwavering positivity, remarkable wit and humor will never be replicated. He was one of the most genuine people I have ever known. His life here on earth was truly a life well lived. There are a whole host of folks in heaven who are now celebrating his life with admiration and of course a lot of laughs. It was an honor to have had the privilege to call him “Uncle.” His legacy will last forever. Rest in peace.

  7. Mr. Tony and I met about four years ago when I was 22 and visiting New York for the first time at a musical play and we immediately hit it off. I was going to go see “HadesTown” in Broadway when he approached the line of people asking if anyone had a spare ticket. I happened to have one because of a friend bailed on me and offered it to him. We spent the next couple of hours chit chatting and enjoying the show when we realized we had tons of similarities and interests. He never did get to come out to the United Kingdom and see a West End show with me. That, I will always regret. He was always a kind hearted man that sought the beauty and the gentleness of others. He lived a long life and had long stories to tell. I had the privilege to even introduce him and his caretaker Ms. Pearly to my girlfriend. He will forever be a friend in my heart and will forever be missed. I thank him for his service and thank him for the kindness he showed me. I will miss you forever my dear friend.

  8. Tony was one of a kind. In 40 years of friendship, I never heard him say a bad word about anyone. He was the most generous person I ever knew, always willing to help, always smiling.

    Tony was one of the greatest autograph collectors in the history of New York City, collecting for over 80 years, longer than anyone I have ever known. His collection consisted of everyone he met over the years, from Marilyn Monroe to James Dean, Judy Garland, Vivien Leigh, Clark Gable, and on up to the stars of today. Tony met them all. The only one he told me he could never get in person was Greta Garbo.

    Tony was so proud of his collection and the perfect condition in which he maintained it. Over 30,000 autographed 3×5 cards, all immaculate. He was equally proud of the Oscar his family had given him to celebrate his 90th birthday.

    He also had a wonderful sense of humor. When I would visit, he always had a spread of snacks laid out, a classic 1940s film playing on the tv, and we would spend hours talking about collecting.

    The only prerequisite to be in Tony’s collection was that the signature had to be on a three by five index card. And if it wasn’t, Tony’s best friend Jack Kuster would become the artist to make the signature worthy of Tony’s collection.

    Over the years Tony was kind enough to introduce me to friends he had collected with in the 1940s, 50s, and 60s. All amassed impressive collections, but none compared to Tony’s. I later had the privilege of assisting several of those friends with assuring their collections were transferred to new owners who would equally appreciate the effort and passion expended in curating them.

    The last time we spoke he mentioned he had a walker, but he was still getting out and still collecting at 93 years old. That was Tony.

    I miss him. I wish he had another seven years and made it to 100. The world would have been a better place.

    God bless him.

    Bob Eaton Founder, RR Auction


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